Yeah, I've been lazy at posting .
What'uv it?
Recently I've come to a few realizations (other than marriage is an interesting experience and while you can be happy in a small space those with more should always be grateful for what they have.) Since I'm a fan of the point form (
ala 7 point sermons) we'll go with that as a general structure for these expulsions of pontification.
Thought 1
Smoking is a stupid disgusting and vile practice that leads to a horrid addiction and can kill you and those around you. Having said that, good tobacco is a lovely thing, a pipe full of it glowing quietly in your hand and it's smoke floating through your mouth is wonderful peaceful thing. So there you go smoking is stupid, unless it's a joy in which case it's ridiculous.
Thought 2
Sexism is stupid. This works both ways. Just because our society talks about something as a female issue doesn't mean it's only a female issue. Just because we have dozens of books and people who have made careers out of a subject as a female issue doesn't mean it doesn't affect men. What it probably means is that men are supposed to "just deal with it" or that "it's not really the same thing" and "we could never really understand because we're not women." But it can be and in our society it increasingly is. Appearance, Weight, Physique.. these are issues that our society would have you believe are only woman's problems but really, have a look at the images around us. Really listen to whose bodies are readily mocked in public. Show me a magazine with a picture of a guy who's not fit and trim and airbrushed that isn't either a musician or comedian or the guy writing the article. Show me a TV show that's got an out of shape guy in it that's not either a stereotype or a goofy friend or a patient that's about to die. Sorry ladies, you're not the only ones that live in a society that "judges them constantly", difference is that, for you, our society admits that it does.
Thought 3
If you know something is not true, if you know something is bullshit, and you still believe or accept it that's your problem. Example: if a car has no engine, no tires, no windows, and no doors and the salesman tells you it's in tip top shape and you buy the car, that's not his fault. Is he a liar? Yes. Is he a bad man? He's definitely not nice. Is it his fault you let your brain tell you that even though what he's saying doesn't make any sense, that it's going to cause you grief, and that it's founded in nothing but greed and deceit, you should still buy this vehicle? No. That's your fault. We all do this, everyday, in a million little ways. We let others (or ourselves) tell us what's true, what's right, and what's good. We know it's a lie, we know it's wrong and we know it's bad, and we believe it. And it's killing us. Spiritually, mentally, and physically we are dying. And as long as we're willing to believe what we know isn't true, we probably deserve it.
That was long, and boring.
Meh.